Coaching that elevates

Designed to help you navigate career growth and lifestyle change with confidence.

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How can I help you?

I offer private career and life coaching that calibrates how you’re positioned, connected, and embedded in high-status environments. The result is expanded opportunity, earning power, and lifestyle control.

This work is rooted in power dynamics and psychology, not idealized or sugarcoated ideas of how things work. Every engagement starts by understanding how you think, how you’re currently being read, and how the environments you’re moving through actually function. Strategy only works when it aligns with real human behavior—power, perception, incentives, and unspoken rules.

Just as important, the strategy is built around you. This is not about performing a role, adopting a persona, or learning how to imitate people with more access. We identify the lane where your strengths, temperament, values, and ambitions actually work—so the way you show up is both effective and authentic.

On the professional side, the focus is presence, language, and strategic judgment—so you’re positioned correctly in environments where status and trust determine outcomes. On the life side, it’s about alignment: social circles, partnerships, and personal dynamics that match the level you’re operating at. The goal is coherence — career success and your personal life reinforcing each other rather than competing.

This is not conceptual brainstorming, performative self-improvement, or template-driven frameworks. It’s precise, strategic work designed for people who already know they’re capable, but recognize that access, leverage, and ease at higher levels require a different operating system.

    • You are ready for coaching if you have made strides with upward social mobility but have reached a plateau professionally, personally, or both.

    • You are preparing for a higher income career change or a senior-level promotion.

    • You have outgrown old social circles, dating has become difficult, or any number of challenges resulting from shifting lifestyles.

    • You lack the confidence or cultural fluency to take advantage of the spaces you’re in

    • You know there are unspoken conversations, but you aren’t interested in the guessing game.

    • Living an autopilot life based on what others have trained you to believe

    • Doubting your full earning potential and ability to make powerful connections

    • Constantly worrying about if you’re doing the “right things”

  • You leave with a clear understanding of where you’re actually trying to go and what path makes sense for you to get there. This may be a roadmap, specific recommendations for events / organizations / activities, or additional resources tailored to your situation.

    • Do you offer image consulting / styling? I offer styling strategy that leaves you in the driver’s seat of what specific pieces make you feel best. This means we define an approach for your style so you can actually shop for yourself, adapt for different occasions, and support broader image goals.

    • Do you offer in-person sessions? Yes, upon request. I am generally based in Dallas or Austin, TX but travel often.

    • What if I need multiple sessions? I never want to take more time than necessary. If follow-up sessions are warranted, we will discuss what makes sense.

    • I want to talk about something I don’t see listed. Most clients come with a variety of “all over the place” topics. My approach is holistic, so multiple areas can be addressed in a way that easily connects.

    • I have a different question. You can contact me here or email me at xavier@xavierclb.com

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The Process

Preparation

You will share relevant context upon booking. I use that to form a preliminary perspective so we can get to solutions quicker.

Targeting

We pressure-test what you think the issue is through targeted questions, often uncovering a larger or more accurate direction than the one you initially came in with.

Strategy

Together, we discuss a path forward that’s realistic, as tactical as possible, and tailored to your specific needs.

Next Steps

We agree on specific next steps, resources, and/or any additional guidance you may need — all sent to you in a recap.

  • "I was making $73k in September 2024. In February 2025, I accepted a job offer for $120k. My dream job, but I wasn't even going to apply. Xavier walked me through it from start to finish."

    Jeremy Oward

  • "Coaching is NOT for the faint of heart! There's no beating around the bush or making you feel good. He didn't let me get away with any excuses. I hated it, but I needed it. Started a new career, moved cities, and I'm way more confident."

    Katie A

  • "Didn't realize how many tips and tricks other people were using. Found the coaching pretty helpful for career planning."

    Nia Alcott

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